4 basic rules of debating…

…for a vigorous, enlightening and healthy argument session (and competitive debating in general):

1. Do NOT to vilify each other or make fun/demonize each others intellects. This is strictly off limits.

2. Do not appear as if you’re debating/trying to “win”. Talk, don’t debate.

3. A little sense of humor goes a long way.  Sarcasm, self reflexive irony are most potent weapons.

4. Be calm. Never EVER raise your voice unless necessary. Screaming, yelling will never work to win over your rival.

My father is a university debating champion. So is my mother. She’s a living legend for leading her institution and students to win countless debating titles in her 27 year teaching career in that city.

It’s a shame they’re still to learn the basic rules of healthy, fruitful debates.